You know even at 28 my family still pushes me to the edge.  I have been planning my wedding now for about 6 months and we will be gett'n er done in the Dominican Republic.  At first everyone was fine with this and even though my wife to be is Roman Catholic and my family is Christin ... well except for me everyone was still fine with the fact that there will be no "traditional" God stuff.

 Now this has all changed.  "Why don't you get married in a church?", "Why do you have to go so far away to get married?".  So many stupid questions like this now come out.  I know that my mother is still not accepting the fact that I therotically kicked Jesus in the ass and told em not to come around no more.  But that is my choice ... wow I just noticed I am rambling.  All in all anyone know the secret to family?  I really need it.